Empath life often feels like a double-edged sword. On the one hand we have incredible encounters and insights that few will ever experience, and on the other, we endure emotional energy and overwhelm that can at times be crippling, and affects our quality of life.
Experiencing the energy of those we come into contact with impacts our biology. Meaning, our immune system is compromised and our hormones get overworked just by picking up the emotions of others, which can eventually lead to anything from depression to physical health problems.
So, yes, we have to constantly work to heal, reset and stay in balance.
The problem is it is difficult to know what we need to heal for each given situation. Because Empaths tend to be Sensitive to anything of a low vibration, it is not only others’ emotions that take their toll. We can be taken down by work stress, being peopled, environment pollutants, EMF, earth changes, diet, etc. Also, what works one day to reset or heal, might not work so well the next.
So, how do we determine what we need right now?
The best way to find that answer is to simply ask yourself.
Our body has the wisdom to know what’s required for self-healing, and we are able to determine what we need by the way something feels after asking prompting questions.
For example: sit quietly and take a couple of calming breaths, close your eyes and ask yourself: will my body benefit from doing a short yoga practice today? See how that question feels within your body. Then ask yourself, will my body benefit from not doing yoga today? Then see how that feels. One will feel right, one will feel wrong. You can use this technique with any question to see what you need to heal/rebalance right now.
When questioning yourself, be sure to listen to the body and not the mind. The mind is good at talking us out of doing what we don’t particularly want to do.
As you know, I share many techniques for the Empath to heal, reset, stay grounded or detached from emotional energy for the reason we are all different, we have different needs, and because we are constantly evolving. By swapping and changing it also helps to keep the body guessing. When we do the same workout every day, for example, the body gets used to it and we don’t always feel as much benefit as when we mix up our routines. The same can be said for rebalancing or healing techniques:
One day we might need a certain crystal to stay grounded, another day an essential oil is required, we may benefit from yoga to reset one day, another day we may need HIIT, or meditation might work best one day to calm a stressed mind, then on another day pranayama breathing is more beneficial.
I must say that my two all-time favourites for energy cleansing, emotional clearing, rebalancing, etc. are getting outdoors in nature and being in water (the bath/shower, sea, natural pools, etc.) Nothing works as quickly or as dramatically.
If I ever feel out of sorts or over-wired from too much emotional energy and go for a walk in the woods or down by the local waterway, I’m always amazed at how quickly I feel uplifted and cleansed. I can go from feeling wired or overwhelmed to feeling fantastic within an hour of being in nature.
Nature and water are also great to cleanse your energy field, especially if you have spent too much time on the internet or on electrical devices, or if you have been peopled.
Salt baths are also incredible for resetting and healing the body (it’s also a great time to do a meditation or to tune into your higher self).
So, if you are not sure what will work best to rebalance, sit quietly and ask yourself what you need. I will add links at the bottom of the page to posts with grounding/energy clearing/rebalancing techniques, just for some fresh ideas.
I would like to take this opportunity to wish you all a happy new year and I hope 2019 is a year of incredible new beginnings. Oh, and don’t forget, today is the last day you can get your copy of my new book half price.
See you in 2019.